Thursday, June 9, 2016

Growing up, moving on...

Today my son graduates fifth grade and leaves behind the elementary school that he knows & loves.
All the assholes who tell you "it goes by too fast," are right. "Cherish every little moment because they grow up so quickly!" Is a sentiment oft repeated, especially to newbie parents. I say: it's fine to not cherish every moment. It's fine to regard the first days (first years, even) as boot camp/purgatory/the hardest thing you've ever done. Whoever tells you "it gets easier" is full of shit. It does NOT get easier. It gets trickier, it gets crazier, but it does gets A LOT more fun. Kids are messy, moody, challenging, mischievous, wild, emotional, dramatic, funny, ridiculous, tiring, and stubborn (but, so are we). Homework is even worse the second time around if you're anything like me & sucked at that sort of thing when you were a kid. BUT, you get to watch your kid discover what they're into as they plow through elementary school at lightning speed (cliche 100%, but true)...you get to see them develop friendships (like our own, some will stick and some will fade)...you get to watch them handle challenges & overcome hurdles (some seemingly petty, some huge & important)...some kids will soar through their first chunk of academia with flying colors and unicorns and rainbows, while some will muddle through with lots of tears and frustration. Hopefully most kids fall somewhere in the middle and approach middle school with a genuine love of learning tempered with a healthy dose of humility. I'm pretty sure that's the direction Max is headed & I couldn't be happier for him. 

Congrats & best wishes to *all* the classes of 2016!
 

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